IAN IS GRACIOUS

yesterday, i saw 2 of my ex classmates MSN pm, and i started to think, reflect and imagine.. one of them says, " 哭也是一天，笑也是一天。 所以，就开心的过每一天吧。" and another one says," running from you is what my best defence is."

 are they tryin to talk to each others indirectly?

Indeed. Love makes a man grow up or sink down. If you can hold something up and put it down, it is called weight-lifting; if you can hold something up but can never put it down,it's called burden-bearing. Pitifully, most of people are bearing heavyburdens when they are in love.

We all live in the past. We take a minute to know someone, one hour to like someone, and one day to love someone, but the whole life to forget someone. and Ian says, "One may fall in love with many people during the lifetime. When you finally get your own happiness, you will understand the previous sadness is kind of treasure, which makes you better to hold and cherish the people you love. "

When you are young, you may wants several love experiences. But as time  goes on, you will realize that if you really love someone, the whole life will not be enough. You need time to know, to forgive and to love. All this needs a very big mind.

so to both of you , my dear ex classmate, this is something you may want to hear ," If you leave me, please don't comfort me because each sewing has to meet stinging pain. " and most importantly. Ian says,"Don’t forget the things you once you owned. Treasure the things you can’t get. Don't give up the things that belong to you and keep those lost things in memory." chim?? translate - 曾经拥有的，不要忘记。不能得到的，更要珍惜。属于自己的，不要放弃。已经失去的，留作回忆。

To me good love makes you see the whole world from one person while bad love makes you abandon the whole world for one person.　and i'm that bad love type.

i always thinks that, in this world, only those men who really feels happy can give women happiness.

If a woman is not sexy, she needs emotion; if she is not emotional, she needs reason; if she is not reasonable, she has to know herself clearly. coz what she only has is misfortune.

An unacceptable love needs no sorrow but time- sometime for forgetting.A badly-hurt heart needs no sympathy but understanding.