IAN IS GRACIOUS

this is a message to express something all guys felt before or might going to feel it later on.

for those who understand chinese pls read on.

    人真的好奇怪，身边的女人对你好，而你觉得自己是一个很优秀的男人，有几个红颜知己对自己关爱有佳是很自然、平常的事。  
　　

    你的不冷不热总让她感觉到不够在乎、珍惜她，于是她跟你分手了，你也觉得很快就会忘记的。  

　　然而有一天，她跟别人恋爱了，你竟然觉得心酸。  

　　不但心酸，还伴随着心疼，更糟糕的是你发现自己其实是在乎她、爱她的！  

　　你对她的恋人嫉妒的要死，你想回到她的身边。她现在快乐，你便越是痛苦。你发现自己已爱她很深了。  

　　明明是自己没有好好珍惜，甚至也有新的女朋友，却为什么还是酸溜溜的感觉呢？  

　　原来，钓不到的鱼是最大的，放走的蝴蝶是最美丽的。  <-- chim?? ( those fishes that you cant hook always is the biggest and yet the butterfly that just released is the most beautiful one)

　　舍弃了的东西是最有价值的，吃不到葡萄也不是最酸的，而是太甜了，甜的你不敢想，唯有说是酸的。  

　　你以为最酸的感觉是吃醋吗？  

     NO，最酸溜溜的感觉是没有资格吃醋，根本就轮不到你吃醋，那才是最酸最酸的。  

　　她以前说永远都不会跟你离开，那又怎么样？又能证明什么？她可没说永远不爱其他人。  
      她有了新的男友，你很想跟她说：我讨厌你跟他在一起！但你们不是已经分手了吗？  

　　吃醋要名分的。吃不到的醋是最酸的。过去了，都过去了。  

　　要从失恋的痛苦中复原过来，只有一个办法，那就是学习接受现实。  

　　无论这个人有多好或有多坏。无论那些日子有多快乐，现在已经过了。  

　　有些人努力想和分手的情人再做朋友，其实，他做那么多的事情，只是没法接受爱情已经消逝了。  

　　当你还去挽救，还去找借口，甚至死缠滥打，那只是你不肯承认对方已经不爱你的事实。  

    有些人无法振作起来，无论朋友怎么劝他，他只会重复说同一句话：我真的很爱她，没有办法把她忘记。  

　　其实你有办法的，只是你不愿意。你害怕当你忘记她，她也会忘记你。  

　　什么事情都已经成为了过去，也许你要做的不是如何把失去的她怎么搞到手，而是好好珍惜身边的人，不要再犯同样的错误，更不要再次吃这种最酸最酸的醋。

so pls pls remeber to treasure what you have now!

 

see who is back!

Alson, my dear classmate, we really duno you are so shuai and amazing when you are singing....

 

morning recieved a cute msg from steve! what can i say is, steve what exactly happened to you????
class still fun and cool.. but still.... haiz! u guys know!

and to my  baby stop "bullying" me!!!  hahahah~

yesterday, i saw 2 of my ex classmates MSN pm, and i started to think, reflect and imagine.. one of them says, " 哭也是一天，笑也是一天。 所以，就开心的过每一天吧。" and another one says," running from you is what my best defence is."

 are they tryin to talk to each others indirectly?

Indeed. Love makes a man grow up or sink down. If you can hold something up and put it down, it is called weight-lifting; if you can hold something up but can never put it down,it's called burden-bearing. Pitifully, most of people are bearing heavyburdens when they are in love.

We all live in the past. We take a minute to know someone, one hour to like someone, and one day to love someone, but the whole life to forget someone. and Ian says, "One may fall in love with many people during the lifetime. When you finally get your own happiness, you will understand the previous sadness is kind of treasure, which makes you better to hold and cherish the people you love. "

When you are young, you may wants several love experiences. But as time  goes on, you will realize that if you really love someone, the whole life will not be enough. You need time to know, to forgive and to love. All this needs a very big mind.

so to both of you , my dear ex classmate, this is something you may want to hear ," If you leave me, please don't comfort me because each sewing has to meet stinging pain. " and most importantly. Ian says,"Don’t forget the things you once you owned. Treasure the things you can’t get. Don't give up the things that belong to you and keep those lost things in memory." chim?? translate - 曾经拥有的，不要忘记。不能得到的，更要珍惜。属于自己的，不要放弃。已经失去的，留作回忆。

To me good love makes you see the whole world from one person while bad love makes you abandon the whole world for one person.　and i'm that bad love type.

i always thinks that, in this world, only those men who really feels happy can give women happiness.

If a woman is not sexy, she needs emotion; if she is not emotional, she needs reason; if she is not reasonable, she has to know herself clearly. coz what she only has is misfortune.

An unacceptable love needs no sorrow but time- sometime for forgetting.A badly-hurt heart needs no sympathy but understanding.　

no matter what happen in future.
it will be still you,my baby. still you~~
Ian learned alot, Ian gain alot.
i'm seriously taking myself into strong determination.
after so many things i saw, i felt. my baby, my baby.
Ian will be strong, Ian will be mature.
heading to his gal or goal. tho both are the same!
come on Ian. wake up wake up.
come on Ian. work hard work hard.
suddenly, Ian realized that no one can ever replace her.
sometime, Ian will be lure by attractions, temptations.
However, Ian is strong in mind. he is firm.
my baby, my baby!

                                  - Ian.F

 

for you my lil baby!!

P.S sorry my voice not tt nice~